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Marriage That Doesn't Suck:
An Uncommon Approach
We get it — you love your spouse, but something feels off. You’re stuck in the same cycles. You try to fix it, only to end up in another fight, or worse … silence.
Marriage That Doesn't Suck is a brutally honest, surprisingly hopeful book for couples who love each other but are tired of the struggle.
No fluff. No formulas. Just the real talk you wish someone had given you years ago.
This Book Is for You If:
- You feel disconnected from your spouse but aren’t ready to give up
- You want more intimacy, communication and peace in your relationship
- You're tired of “perfect Christian marriage” expectations
- You're a church leader or counselor looking for a trusted resource
Inside, You'll Discover
- How to stop fighting the wrong enemy
- How to talk without shutting down (or blowing up)
- What forgiveness looks like in real life
- How to get your spark back (really!)
Why We Wrote This Book
A Message From the Authors





About The Authors
Meet Larry & Susan Pons
Larry and Susan Pons served as directors of The Inn of Last Resort, known throughout the world for its outreach to Christian leaders, families and young people, for 40+ years. Together they ministered to couples and families from over 100 nations through their life-changing Train to Reign program. The couple is blessed to have four adult children and eight grandchildren.
Remove Obstacles
Learn how to keep kids, work and activities from coming between you and your spouse.
Duty vs. Intimacy
Identify simple steps you can take to accentuate intimacy with your spouse, even during difficult times.
Identify & Resolve Conflict
Establish boundaries for serious discussions and overcome emotional separation.
Fatherhood
Understand the significance of fathers and the impact they have on their children.
Womanhood
Grasp God's unique plan for women as wives and mothers in His divine order.
Meaningful Communication
Learn how to successfully share ideas and feelings in a way that your spouse understands.
Companion Workbook Now Available!
The Marriage That Doesn’t Suck Workbook is designed to help you and your spouse grow closer to each other and to God. Rooted in biblical principles, it offers practical tools—thoughtful reflections, guided discussions and hands-on exercises—to encourage growth, healing and deeper connection. As you journey through its pages, you’ll discover how God’s love and guidance can transform your marriage and draw you into a stronger, more Christ-centered union.
Larry and Susan Pons have helped bring healing and hope to thousands of marriages worldwide.
Praise for
Marriage That Doesn't Suck
“Because of these teachings, our lives were changed. We now see our marriage as our highest calling, and for the first time, are experiencing the fruit of walking in agreement.”
G.C.
“The material presented in this book presupposes that you, like us, have come to the end of yourself and want to change habits that do not reflect the character of Christ. No couples need to wait for a crisis to benefit from the Kingdom principles Larry and Susan have offered the Body of Christ. Having learned to walk by faith in God’s wisdom, they have helped numerous couples struggling to align what they believe with their actions. All it takes is God’s grace, the transformative power of the Holy Spirit and our willingness to be changed.”
Cal and Libussa Huge
Authors & Retired Missionaries
“The word that comes to us immediately, when thinking about Larry and Susan and their family, is authenticity. They are one of the most authentic couples we have ever met and engaged with over a longer period of time. This genuineness is lived out daily, and visible when one spends about three months of uninterrupted time with them. You can’t fake it over such a period; nothing stays hidden. It is impressive how they honestly live out what they teach, train, and coach others to do.”
Dr. Erik and Jeltje Spruyt
Founders of Le Rucher Ministries
“Larry and Susan found biblical, Christ-centered ways of guiding families to health and healing, bringing hope to individuals who had lost hope. Larry and Susan genuinely live what they teach. This book will multiply their God-given wisdom to families around the world.”
Kent and Janet Norell
Veteran Missionaries & Pastor
“If you desire to understand family, its roles, and its biblical principles, this book will help you. I believe it will become a standard for understanding God’s plan for families. I recommend my friends Larry and Susan Pons and this book, which they have written, lived, and modeled. Be prepared to be encouraged, challenged, and blessed as you read.”
Bill Eubank
Former Senior Pastor for 40+ Years
Faith Meets Real Life
This isn’t a marriage “fix-it” manual with a few Bible verses slapped on.
It’s honest. It's vulnerable. And it’s rooted in the belief that God wants your marriage to thrive — even when it's messy.
You don’t need a perfect marriage. You just need an honest one.